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Lots of older women have a strong sex drive and love sleeping with younger men. Having said that, getting it on with an older broad will be quite different than with someone closer to your age. Your technique with any particular woman will vary depending on both of your ages, past experiences, sex drive and preferences. The main goal is to have intimate experiences that are satisfying for both of you. Having better sex with older women is all about figuring out what she wants and learning to please her.
First of all, cougars have been around the block and know what they want. According to a recent study that looked at cougar-cub sexual relationships, one reason older women prefer young men is because of their sex drive. Needless to say, younger guys have more stamina and sexual energy than their older counterparts. For older women, this equates to more impromptu, adventurous sex—and sometimes even two or three romps within one rendezvous. Keep reading for more tips and advice on having better sex with older women.
The age gap between you and your mature main squeeze is really no big deal. In fact, I recommend embracing the age difference by expressing why you appreciate a mature woman. Think of it almost like foreplay, one of the things older women need to have sex. One major plus of hooking up with an older woman is that they tend to be better teachers. Lean into the age gap and see where it takes you. Communication is key before, during and after sex. This is because women are highly emotional.
For us guys, we can look at a girl and know within seconds if we want to have sex with her, and we can be ready for that sex right away. This goes for women we meet on the top hookup apps out there or in a more traditional way around town.
Aside from great sex, this mean an emotional connection. So, how do you know if a cougar is looking for something casual, serious or something in between? Communicate with her! In some instances, a woman might be into younger men but not up for getting it on three times a day or even three times a week. As women age, their hormones shift. Communication is crucial for figuring out where she stands, like if she wants to have sex with you. This might not be too surprising, but you need to actually put these tips to work if you want to improve.
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When learning how to have great sex with older women, the idea of dominance can be very important. At every age, many women like being dominated, especially during sex. They enjoy having this control. But in the bedroom, they want to feel the opposite. They want to be able to let go completely and feel like the man is in total control. That requires you to be confident in the bedroom and also extremely dominant.
When you take control of her in the bedroom, you're showing your masculine energy assertiveness, leadership, strength. This allows her to be submissive and open up into her feminine energy sensitivity, sensuality, vulnerability. Most women prefer to take on this feminine role in a relationship, and therefore in the bedroom.
On the other hand, there are exceptions; some women love to dominate. Mature women view young men as more willing to follow their lead. You can switch back and forth depending on the mood. So, you need to be open-minded, leave your ego at the door, and be willing to take and accept their advice.
Throw her on the bed. Women love sex just as much as men. But many prefer when the men initiate action in the bedroom. This is your first opportunity to take on the role of dominant masculine, allowing her to fall into her preferred role of submissive feminine. Lead her into the bedroom, throw her onto the bed and start ripping her clothes off. Pick her up.
If she's petite enough to be carried to the bedroom, this is another move that can show off your masculine dominance. While she's still in your grasp, try pinning her bedroom wall and kissing her passionately. Pin her down. Watch what happens when you pin a woman against a wall or down on the mattress during foreplay.
Many will moan with excitement. Assume she likes it and but pay attention to how she is reacting. If you feel physical resistance or see nervousness in her eyes or get any other indication she isn't into it, pull back. Move her into the positions you want, so that she can let go and enjoy the experience. Pull her hair. Grab her hair from the roots and lightly pull it back. This shouldn't hurt her, but she should be able to feel the tug. Choke her. Put your hand there lightly at first, and if she shows no resistance, then go a little bit harder.
Keep it relatively light though, at least the first time, and then ask her afterward if she likes to be choked. If she says yes, then you can go harder the next time just remember to be careful with this one. Spank her. You'll be surprised how many women enjoy this. Many are proud to show you the handprints on their ass.
Tell her what to say. Most women will love this because it adds to the narrative of being dominated by her masculine lover. To make this perfectly clear, all these actions must take place in a loving, trusting consensual partnership. This is about dominating women in a way they enjoy, not performing sexual acts against their will. From the moment you meet an older woman to the moment you actually have sex, confidence is key. In fact, it's key if you want to get an older woman into bed. As I mentioned, a lot of mature women feel good in their bodies and might even be more willing to walk around naked after sex.
And yet, reassurance is never a bad thing. Some cougars may not be as toned as they used to, and others might be self-conscious about their aging skin. But telling her what you love about her body will make her feel more comfortable and confident in bed. Sometimes, the simplest thing can give you a hard-on, like a fully-clothed picture of an attractive woman or the sound of her voice.
This might not be news to you, but women tend to work differently. Members of the opposite sex require a little more time and effort from their partners to get in the mood. Older women want some sexual tension. And this goes for both young and older women. Foreplay is a core element of a great sexual experience. It takes most women between 10 and 20 minutes to reach full arousal. Naughty text messages throughout the day. Massages, scented candles, incense, music waiting for her in the bedroom. Anything that makes her feel loved and appreciated by you will serve to get her in the mood for a mind-blowing love-making session.
Have you tried experimenting with blindfolds or eating food off each other? Maybe you could investigate tantric foreplay? Have a play around. You might discover something you really like. Once you play the music and light the incense and candles, you can tell her to lie down and then give her a sexual massage. Rub down her whole body--back, head, arms, legs. Then, turn her around on her back and massage the front of her body with her hands, and then lightly kiss her breasts. Work your way down each leg with your mouth, then slowly back up to her vagina.
The more relaxed a woman feels, the easier it will be for her to come. Is she into adventurous sex? And on that note, if she has some frisky ideas about mixing it up in bed, go for that, too! In many instances, amazing sex is all about spontaneity and open-mindedness. You never know what you might like. Just keep in mind that not all older women are into kinky, adventurous sex—and you might not be, either. A spontaneous attitude could really elevate the sexual relationship.
Speaking of spontaneity, sometimes, the hottest sex is unplanned. When you get into the habit of last-minute nookie or booty-calling each other, things will really heat up. Of course, many women need a little time to get fully aroused. To have better sex with older women, you need to build your stamina and last longer. Otherwise, you risk leaving your sexy older partner feeling let down.
You should be able to go at it for at least minutes consistently without worrying about finishing too quickly the whole time. If you become physically fitter by hitting the gym, lifting weights and throwing in some cardio, this will definitely help. Nevertheless, it's not the only way to increase stamina in the bedroom. Start meditating 10 minutes per day so you can be more in the moment. Meditation helps you get out of your head and into the present moment.
It allows you to develop a deeper connection to your body, so you're able to control the pace of your sexual performance before you accidentally blow your load. As an added bonus, meditation helps to reduce stress, boosting your libido in the process. Strengthen your kegel muscles. These are the muscles in your penis that you squeeze to hold in your pee. Practice squeezing these muscles for one minute at a time, then releasing. Do five sets of this per day.
Try new positions. Consider adopting some of the positions which make it easier for men to last longer. These include spooning, side-by-side or any position where you're both sat down.How to please a mature woman
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